Suhainis Bte Samsi is someone that love me dearly and I always knew it. She married me when my future was a big question mark and told everyone that she was the luckiest girl in the whole world.
She always praised my virtues, ignored my faults, tolerated my friends, catered to my relatives and would never quite admit she is doing it! She will build me up when others would “put me down”, she would make my dreams seem like real possibilities, “sometimes nag a little”. She would show her concern about my weight, and then serve my favorite desserts.
Her companionship is my delight. Her laughter and smiles are my joy. Her dreams are my goals. Her faith is my strength. Her loyalty kept my whole world steady. And year after year, she only proved to me over and over again the thing I knew all along, that my wife is the one person I could not do without – because she is someone who always loved me.
She put up with all of my faults, and they are myriad. She has endured seeing dollar after dollar spent on her husband and not on her.
I cannot imagine being more fortunate in love than I have been with Suhainis.
I have to admit that I am not the greatest husband. I could have done so much more, a realisation that, as it so often does, comes a tad too late to matter. But I will continue to cherish every moment that I spent being married to Suhainis.
When everything else in my life seemed dark, she was always there to light the darkness. It is difficult to imagine my life without her having been in it. I hope and pray that she will go on when I am gone and enjoys her life as much as she deserves. I can think of no one more deserving of happiness than her.
The last year has been the most delightful one of our lives, and in some ways, the most challenging. By all appearances, my wife is loving it as much as I am. She has risen to the occasion, let me tell you.
And she’s pretty easy on the eyes. 🙂