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My 5 year old wedding anniversary

Today also marks exacty 10 years, 4 months and 4 days since I have known my wife. I must say that looking back, those were the most wonderful 3776 days of my life well spent when you know that you have spend it with someone whom ended up as your spouse.

I know that I have not been a good husband. In fact, I realised that after marriage, I had more to do to sustain my lovelife and family life together. I learnt more about making sacrificies and about giving in and taking moderately, all the basic necessities in life.

Thank you my dear wife for helping and shaping me to become who I am and what I am right now. I do hope that we will remain together till death do us part.

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Marriage

Marriage is a fundamental social institution, providing the foundation of a harmonious and enriching family life and the basic building block of our society. Regardless of religion, culture or constitutional tradition, societies have always agreed on the nature of marriage.

Life transitions require change and often we are not prepared for our reactions to them. Couples who choose to become engaged are “in love,” and would assess their relationship as “good.” In a good relationship, you are free to discuss concerns and feelings with each other.

Marriage is one of the biggest decisions you will ever make. Consequently, some degree of anxiety is to be expected. Your nervous feelings may be the result of the fact that you take commitment very seriously.

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Marriage and maintaining a healthy relationship

Marriage is in many ways a simplification of life, and it naturally combines the strengths and wills of two people so that, together, they seem to reach farther into the future than they did before. Above all, marriage is a new task and

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Reality behind marriage life

Every relationship in some way has similarities with the other. Ups and downs are given and all these are attributed on the uniqueness of both the individuals involved. The values, beliefs/religion, family background and culture play key roles in the success or failure of the relationship.

The cultural differences have actually made us a better person taught us to be more patient, open-minded, fun-loving, etc. Life had never been dull or a routine. Each day is a new day to look forward to as we know we will learn something novel from each other a continuous learning process, as what life really is, but ours are just catered on a colorful plates

Sometimes couples get so wrapped up planning the wedding; they forget about the actual marriage. Married life isn’t all cozy dinners and regular sex; it’s also a lot of compromise and communication.

Your spouse should be your best friend and you need to treat them like they are your best friend.

Be open and honest. If you are unhappy, let your spouse know it. Remember that a good argument is better than no argument at all.

There is no such thing as happily ever after. There’s good times and bad, but don’t expect to be happy all the time. People that expect to be happy all the time get disappointed a lot and get divorced early.

Marriage is a very serious business. It is the biggest financial and personal transaction of your life. You need to look at the other person and realize that you are not going to change them.

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On another note, I wish my matchmaker and my buddy well for this weekend ordeal 🙂

Love you always…