You think after spending 5 years together, you’ve found true love? You think that after spending so much time together, do you think the guy/girl is THE one that you’re looking for?
You think after you’ve known the person for ages and even get married to each other, you’ve found true love? Do you think your marriage is based on love? Really?
For the past few years, I’ve come across friends and acquaintances coming back to me and telling me that they’ve had instances of their spouses/boyfriends/girlfriends cheating behind their back. Is that love to begin with?
What is love? Definition from Dictionary.com refer to love as:
A feeling of intense desire and attraction toward a person with whom one is disposed to make a pair; the emotion of sex and romance
Then why do we have issues with cheating husbands/wives/boyfriends/girlfriends if we have found true love? How should one manage when facing such issues?
Some say that the basic factors of a relationship is TRUST, HONESTY, and RESPECT. If you dont have any 1 of these then it wont work.
In my next entry, I’d probably do a write up on how to handle such issue though.
As for me, true love is when you are able to look at the persons’ good and bad qualities day in and day out and still want to be with them, still want to have and hold a relationship with them.
When you disagree, which happens in all healthy relationships, you manage to still find a part of you which has compassion for that person. It’s when you love a person regardless of how they look when they wake up, even if they gain or lose a few or a lot of pounds.
Love, in my opinion is a choice, we choose to love and choose not to love.
And to my darling Suhainis, I really do found true love since the first day I met you. Honest.