As I was browsing thru’ the list of blogs in my links, I read upon 2 sites whose owner is undergoing sort of a rollercoaster ride on this thing call LOVE.
I know Ah Boi will definitely hate this issue but nevertheless, I feel that I need to voice out the facts about this (partly due to the ego factor)
There isn’t any pure love in this world anymore. semuanya cinta monyet.
Fact#1: Pure love is a willingness to give without a thought of receiving anything in return.
Fact#2: Love comes when manipulation stops; when you think more about the other person than about his or her reactions to you. When you dare to reveal yourself fully. When you dare to be vulnerable.
Of course, my assumption is that the blogger is probably trying to say that there is no such thing as true love. Even so, I feel that love is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own. From this, I feel as much as the heart yearns to be love, it will never understand the true meaning of love unless one learn to sacrifice one’s desire for the sake of the other party.
Wrong? Prove it to me then. Sure, every one of us has their own bad sides. Search your heart if you refute this claim. However, we come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly. This is exactly how I view her.
Sometimes, I wonder what does the following proverb mean. Now, I finally understand.
In true love the smallest distance is too great, and the greatest distance can be bridged.