The blog of a certified GEEK

It has been an enriching year for me, both in my personal life as well as work experiences. And yet, we all will bid goodbye to our good times (and the bad ones) that we have encountered for the past few months.

Some prefer not to remember any of the bad ones and just moved on with their lives, thus treating it like it never occured in the first place. I wonder why we don’t want to take the positive out of it, to try and learn from our mistakes so as to ensure that the same mistake do not happen again.

Others tend to be too emotional and start to think of the negative aspects and how it has affected their lifestyle, blaming that their lives would have turned out better if it did not occur in the first place.

I talk in rambles these days. I am not sure why though. Must be the 30-ish syndrome.

Wait. Don’t wait. Wait. Don’t Wait. Decision and more decisions.

The topic that my uncle brought forth during the night class set me thinking. It was also in lieu of today being Father’s Day, a special day when we take time-out from our everyday life to pay tribute and recognise the efforts that our fathers have made and sacrificed for the family.

The job of a father is never an easy job. Of course, it is second only to the mother’s duty when it comes to raising up a proper family. Gone are the days when fathers are just playing a secondary role in shaping the life of their own family.

In a modern society, equal responsibility is being shared by both spouses and I have seen cases of bad childhood experiences for my own pupils whom were brought up without the guidance of either a father or a mother. Since this topic is more on Father’s Day, I shall leave behind the duties of a mother and focus more on the subject.