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Death of another beloved one

Its always hard when you lose someone who’s close to you. I loved my grandma. My heart is heavy even right now.

My grandmother died two days ago. Her pain has ended and ours has just begun. Her death was unexpected but not without preparation.

Grief hits us all differently. But the loss of a grandparent, I think, can be very painful. They represent a unique kind of love, an unfettered and unconditional love. And their passing, let’s face it, means we are that much closer to death ourselves. When a generation is gone, we move up a notch.

My Grandma was loving, she was kind, to everyone not only to our family. She was known in the neighbourhood for helping out those who were less fortunate.

I’m mourning the loss of my childhood, as some of my fondest memories from that time were spent with Grandma, memories that make me remember how truly grateful I am for the family I have.

My grandmother died two days ago. And with her death, ended her pain and ended our pain as we passed from pain to love for her, for each other, for the person she saw us as.

Allah alone has the knowledge of the Hour of Doom. And He sends down the rain and knows what is in the wombs (of pregnant mothers). No person knows what he will earn tomorrow (whether good or bad), and no person knows in what land he will die. Surely, Allah is All-Knowing, All- Aware Encompassing all things.

(Surah Luqman : Ayat 34)

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About bringing happiness together

I feel in a relationship, if you love someone, that is the person you would want to spend the majority of your time with DOING things together, not simply taking the lead alone. Obviously, it takes a special mind set to accomplish not wanting to project what will make us happy

It is OK to have an idea of what you WANT and envision yourself having it someday. You also have to live in the present and have gratitude for what is already good in your life and what you have become. My belief is that the art of being happy is being flexible with those wants as life leads us on our winding path.

Seeking it out may have to do with exercising the toxic people, trusting your instincts when you come to a crossroad. It may not always be the easy path, but envisioning what you want helps you make the choices. We don’t know what will make us happy someday, that is why we must seek what works for us now.

It’s important to also know what we want. And to know what we want, we have to know ourselves well. We spend so much time making lists of what we want in a mate, that we don’t have time to learn who WE are. It’s my view that if we really learn about ourselves, our goals and tastes and values and interests, that we’ll just attract someone who fits well with us.

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About long distance relationships

The very concept of long distance love relations still seems a little absurd to many people..

Love in general is a wonderful feeling for all of us and being in love is one of the most phenomenal feelings. When distance comes between them, the only solace they have is the love and trust that they share with each other. But, they still survive the distance and the wait to come out stronger and have more faith on each other than the normal couples do.

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Rollercoaster

Bus Dilemma

A couple of days back, after a rather tiring day in office, I drag myself up a feeder trunk bus service and plop myself on one of those seats facing the rear. A few stops later, a couple of passengers boarded the same bus, out of which, there were 3 individuals who made me fall into a dilemma.

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F1 track in Singapore

Did you notice that the track goes under the GRANDSTAND !?!?

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2008

I believe everyone of us have new hopes, resolutions and expectations in the coming year. I too hope that the coming year will bring a new change in me, for my family and for you.

May 2008 be the year for us to celebrate with more joyous occasions lining up our path. 🙂

Oh and by the way, I’ll be doing something different next year. Stay tuned for more updates.

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IT Corner

Teen Burns Classmate, Blames World Of Warcraft

After losing a schoolyard fight, a 17-year-old boy in Beijing recently covered a classmate with gasoline and lit him on fire, claiming he was a fire mage in World of Warcraft.

[ link here ]

I want to know how it got that far in the first place. Where did he get the gasoline and matches? Also, what kind of a person doesn’t get suspicious when someone starts pouring gasoline on you ?

Its really stupid to blame the makers of the game for the actions of the 17 year old. After all he’s 17, not 7. Luckily the court deemed him currently unfit for society and jailed him instead of blaming Blizzard.

  • A South Korean man dies after playing Starcraft for 50 hours straight.
  • An online gamer from Shanghai kills another gamer for selling his sword he won in Legend of Mir 3.
  • An infant daughter dies after her South Korean parents leave her unattended to play World Of Warcraft.
  • A Chinese man dies after playing games on the internet for three days straight.

And now this.